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Sunday, June 30, 2024

North Carolina



Wowza I am overdue for some updates here. Although most of the world has moved on from blogs, my kids still love to go back and read it, so I'm updating in their honor. And because it helps plan trips! 

This spring was HARD. There were a lot of things going on behind the scenes that I can't really talk about here because they're not mine to share, but dang, it was so hard. It all kind of came to a head in one (absolutely craptastic) week where my oncologist called to tell me that I had suspicious imaging results and needed to schedule a biopsy, my beloved grandmother died, and my parents' divorce was finalized. It was really hard. 



So I was very thankful when summer finally arrived and we started going on some of the adventures that I had been planning as a mental respite from everything else! The big kids had all kinds of fun things on the docket, so I decided that it would be fun for the little boys to have something similar to look forward to. My mom came out right after Memorial Day and spent a few weeks with us, then we drove down to my sister Rosalind's in North Carolina to spend a week with her family. We were excited for cousin time at the beach and in the mountains!


These Tinkerbell rhododendron are out of order, but so be it. They were so beautiful and helped a little bit with the ache of not seeing the Tinkerbell bush at my parents' former home in Michigan. 



It was so fun to get to spend some time with my nieces and nephew! Here's Coco & I after we finished up a nice picture book reading session. 



Rosalind planned SO many fun activities and we had a great time exploring around the greater Raleigh area. 



Trying to remember what the kids were feeding the ducks here. Mangos and Sun Chips, maybe? 



We hit this park one day for a fun festival that included face painting! (Nathan did not want his face painted AT ALL.) 



One day we went to Rosalind's gym and spent a couple of hours working out before spending the afternoon at the pool with the kids (they spent our workout time in the childcare area which has all of these amazing fun classes for the kids to do while their parents are working out). Also not pictured but we went to a sunset yoga pop-up class Rosalind taught one night, which was very cool!!



Came back from a run to find this adorable peaceful scene pre-breakfast. I brought these bead boxes with us and the kids made soooo many bracelets and necklaces (Nathan totally bedecked Coco, I honestly don't know how many he made for her, but it was super cute to see how much she adored him). 



One night we got a stack of pizzas and headed over to this fun splash pad, where Chris later met us bearing Tillamook ice cream. Yes please!



More bracelets!



We spent one morning in Prospect Park which was SO fun. 


Rode the train...


And the carousel! 




And the paddleboats!  Gosh there were so many fun things to do there. 






We also went to Boulted Bread which is actual heaven on earth. 



I mean look at that morning bun...




Another day we drove to Topsail Island on the coast. My boys were very excited about the fact that they would be able to dip their toes in both the Atlantic and Pacific in the span of a single month. 



It was a little chilly but that didn't stop us from having a great time!







At the end of our trip, we spent two nights camping at Grayson Highlands. This is actually the first time I've ever taken any of our kids camping without Neil along (and while Chris came up after our first night, we did all the initial camp setup and firebuilding and all of that without any men along!). My verdict is that I can camp without Neil but I greatly prefer to camp with him.

Nathan was super excited about hiking a chunk of the Appalachian Trail (planning for some time on the Pacific Crest Trail later in the summer!). 



We lucked out with weather and it was absolutely gorgeous. 




Seriously such a beautiful place. I almost regretted not joining Jordan and Chris a couple months earlier when they ran a 50-miler here, but they told me it was basically a wall of fog, so I would have missed out on the views anyway. 



Nathan and Matty and I decided to continue on to hit the highest point in Virginia, Mount Rogers. Chris joined us after about twenty minutes on the trail (and honestly scared the daylights out of us when he caught up, haha!). It was really interesting to watch the woods change as we went higher. 



Some gorgeous expansive sweeping views...



So there were two kinds of free-roaming creatures you don't usually see on trails. One was a herd of very scary cows with very scary horns. We gave them as wide a berth as possible but it honestly felt like hiking past a bear! 



And the other was absolute fuzzballs of delight! Grayson Highlands is famous for the wild ponies and it did not disappoint. 



I mean SERIOUSLY SO CUTE. 





The ponies were interspersed throughout different meadows all along the hike, which kept things fun and interesting since you never knew when you'd round a corner and find a new pony herd. 



Hiking along, taking a group photo...



And look! More ponies!





Such a fun and unique experience--the little newborn foals were the absolute fuzziest most adorable things you can imagine. 


Monday, August 14, 2023

Decker Family Reunion



This year we had our first whole-family reunion since 2019!! We've gotten together in chunks here and there, and we've had two times where all the sisters and my parents were together, but this is the first time in FOUR years that we had everyone together!! Pretty amazing. 



Ruth and Jordan were very gracious and hosted all the festivities in their gorgeous new home, and can I just say that this pool cover is genius, it was sooo nice to just push some buttons and then the kids couldn't get into the pool while we were eating. 



Don't worry, they had PLENTY of time in the water (this is the hot tub). 



And does it get better than the view from the pool? I think not. 



Luke somehow managed to commandeer a lot of noodles...



For this reunion we drew names and divided up into teams of a couple of adults and a bunch of kids, the main rule was that you couldn't be paired with your spouse, which actually ended up being really awesome. It gave everyone the chance to work with someone they might not normally gravitate to AND we were all way less stressed sharing the load in families between different meals/days, plus I personally was much nicer to my teammates when stressed than I would have been to my own family. (There's a lesson there I guess.) 


The first night we kicked it off with a Mediterranean feast made by Chris, Mom, and Abigail's team (sorry guys I don't remember your team name) and then we had our official opening ceremonies, all designed and led by Elise. We got our reunion T-shirts (which were fun because we all had the same logo but everyone got to pick their color) and then Elise passed out bandanas and we all grouped into our teams and came up with a team name and then had a trivia competition. 



And somewhere in there Matthew took this series of photos. 




This was our team--the Lavendar Ladies!!



A shot of the other teams getting into some planning...



The littlest Lavendar Lady was a big fan of the pita bread we had that night. 



I loved this shot of Neil and Colette (Team Gangrene Ninjas!). Coco met Neil that day but they were already pals (and he was in heaven because he reaaaallly misses the days when our girls were this little! Jules used to curl up on his lap like this and the two of them called it "princess ball"). 



Another shot of the Gangrene Ninjas working on some meal planning. 



Soooo much time in the water, so fun because it was HOT. 




Luke would legit live in this hot tub if given the choice. 



On Monday morning, Aunt Karen (my uncle and his wife also came from California, which was so fun!) did a painting project at the park which we LOVED. Seriously, this was such a highlight for me because I love stuff like this and just haven't made the time for it the last five or six years. 





Here's my quick little mountain painting. 



And Rosalind's cool impressionistic take on a photo she took in the Tetons the previous week.



One of the big highlights for Jules was becoming buddies with Archie...



And I lost track of how many times I found a different person asleep in the library. 



More pool time, I think that might be Rosalind and Ruth but I'm not positive. 



"What you heard was I want some chips and salsa. What I actually said was give me ALL your chips and salsa." Seriously though--the best chips ever (Joe Bandido's?). 



Jules putting up everyone's paintings on the outdoor fireplace mantel with Uncle Kevin looking on.



Team Black Mambas working on a delicious dinner!



Seriously, the food was soooo good all week. 



I came in one night and had to take this photo because I thought it was pretty funny.



A screenshot of a video I took during the family talent show, those are some pretty incredible backup dancers!




Kids working on a service project for the Turtle Shelter



And I'm pretty sure this was the 4th of July. ;-)



The Lavendar Ladies were in charge of lunch (and dinner) this day, and since we had Julie on our team, she taught everyone how to make dumplings and we made...like 300? Can't remember exactly. It was a lot and they all got eaten. 



A loooot of dumplings. 



One of my favorite parts of the reunion was watching how much my kids enjoyed interacting with their aunts and uncles as part of their meal prep teams. Here's Rosalind and Isaac working out the proportions for a truly enormous batch of cranberry bread. 



And then making the bread--sorry guys I can't remember your team name either! 



Kind of the best afternoon snack ever...



Also some pretty wild pool hair. 




One of the salads the Lavendar Ladies made for our dinner, peach burrata with tons of basil and caramelized pecans. Yum yum yum, I am actually making this for dinner tonight!



Elise truly rocking it on the 4th



Ruth bought bingo stuff one night at 1 am and then had some very fun prize baskets and the kids got REALLY into bingo. 




She also spent days and days making tons of ice cream in advance of our dinner day, so we had a huge ice cream bar for dessert and I kid you not, her raspberry chocolate ice cream is the BEST I have ever had in my life, just barely edging out the passionfruit sorbet. 



I loved watching these kids together. 



Mmmmm homemade ice cream...so many fun flavors and combinations to try!



Pretty spectacular sunset on the way in...



We played Acey Deucey one night and holy cow, my dad cleaned it up!! Screenshots from Rosalind. 



I was totally laughing at this giant group all crowded around to watch the Alone: Season 10 premiere. 



And then sadly it was time to head back home to Indiana...first some goodbyes to Archie. 




And then Nathan and Caleb. These two got to be such good friends and Nathan was super super devastated to say goodbye!



So we went to In & Out and got a little bit of extra time (don't miss Caleb's Rainbow Loom bracelets up there!)


 So fun and I'm excited to see everyone again NEXT WEEK, which is absolutely wild. 

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